In My Humble Opinion

We Didn't Start the Fire

Burn It Down: A Reflection on Change, Rage, and a Hundred-Year-Old House

How often do you get to witness a century-old house on your childhood street go up in flames—intentionally set ablaze by a local church group, no less? The house was sacrificed, they said, to make way for a mega-church that few on the block actually want. The irony of that moment wasn’t lost on me. It felt like a scene out of a surreal, slow-burning film. Allegedly unwelcome, unquestionably real.

It was a cold winter day. I stood and watched, fascinated and furious. What I saw wasn’t just a house burning—it was a symbol of the time we’re living in. A time of erasure, of loud ambition that drowns out quiet history. Of power cloaked in righteousness.

This fire became fuel for something inside me. I began creating images that embodied the Angry Woman—a spirit channeling the grief, the rage, and maybe even a touch of Carrie White energy from Carrie. I paired them with Billy Joel's haunting song that echoed everything I was feeling in that chapter of my life. My own personal reckoning, captured through the lens.

Because this moment wasn’t born today. What we’re experiencing now—this unraveling, this blind momentum—started decades ago. We’re just seeing the flames reach the edges now.

And maybe that’s why a meme I saw recently hit so hard: God peering down from the clouds, the caption reading simply, “Next time, no humans.”

Some days, it’s hard not to understand that sentiment

Graduations

I was working on my scrapbooks tonight, and realized I needed to add photos from Fisher’s 6th grade graduation photos from a year ago, June 2019. (Elementary runs through 6th grade)…

This year I am sensitive for the Seniors who are graduating in such an unusual time in our world. Looking at these images, taken in a “normal year”, I feel so blessed that we captured such memorable photos. I never realized they would be so important. It was a special time…and I truly took it for granted…

I also realized, as I have gained weight over the Covid, that a year ago, when I thought I looked like crap, I actually look back now, and I realize I am happy with how I looked in the photo of me with my only son on his graduation day. Yes, I have mom hair, but as my shag grows now, I have been pondering doing the Jane Fonda cut again….I could do it again.

Anyhoo… looking at a year ago, I realize that every moment is precious, and these three photos are significant in so many ways. To all the Seniors..whether Kindergarten, 5th grade, 6th grade, 8th grade, or 12th grade, in 2020, you are amazing, and there is a reason why you experienced this Covid during your graduation year. You will launch from it, and when you are running the world, you will make it the best place ever. Thank you in advance….when I’m 64…(A La Beatles")…

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Thoughts about The Professional Photography Industry

The photography industry has changed completely over the last 20 years

Tonight, we showed beautiful portraits to a self proclaimed millennial, (who had won a charity session we donated), who had to wrap it around her head that she has to pay for quality portraits created by a professional photographer.

Tonight, I also saw a post in a wedding industry Facebook group where a photographer was warning others about her client who walked out of her house with a disc of images she was selling him at a price of $2 a digital file. She was upset that he not only didn’t pay her for the product when he left with the disc, but he never paid her for the overtime... 🙄...That tells me she doesn’t know how to run her business professionally and she is one of the reasons why we run into clients who don’t understand that there is a difference between our work and the “$2 an image - walk all over me photographer”.

Let me tell you, this industry can be fucked up.

Remember, there are incredible artists who create portraits of you which will become priceless over time.

Printed pieces which won’t get corrupted on a cd or deleted with a push of a button.

Printed pieces that will be enjoyed everyday and into the future even if the electricity is out, or Facebook is down.

You are not paying these artists for a “15 minute mini-session with 16 images included” which you just pull off of their site to do whatever you want...(and you forget the name of the photographer because you never had a connection with them.)

You are paying for the years of experience, education and the passion for how they capture you in a single image. You are paying for all of the behind-the-scenes labor and materials, insurances, and equipment to create the artwork that is signed and framed for you and the future to cherish.

This image below also popped up on my feed tonight, and it was exactly what I have in my head. I am blessed that the majority of our clients get the art of Professional Photography. I hope I can educate those others who think that photographers don’t have to make money and pay bills and make a living like others in other professions. I am blessed to do what I love and luckily I’m hanging in there when it comes to making a living.

Thank you to all you who hire a professional photographer and invest in their art. 💚🙏📸

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